Random Thought.
this shall be a random post, igonore if ya annoyed by it.
Is sex an essential element in a relationship?
Is it so true that by having sex, it levels up the r/s?
Tsk, tsk.
This is sucha sensitive topic.
Im not here to criticise yeah.
This is purely personal thoughts and issue.
I just feel that there's no need for sex in my r/s.
If ones truly love each other, their love doesnt need to be shown by that.
Okays, from my past experience(Im still a virgin alright), i realised that some r/s are driven by lust yet some are love.
Alright, so, im the traditional-sex-aft-marriage sort of person.
Im naive? Im not realistic at all?
I beg to differ, even if the society culture has been advancing rapidly, it doesnt mean my thinking, my practices should move along as well.
Thus, doesn't mean ppl nowadaysthink its alright bout premarital sex, i should go along with them as well.
Stories i've heard from friends, its disheartening yet some are truly touched.
But still, im glad that i hold on to my beliefs and grateful that its god's will that make me for what i am today.
Im proud to stay on with this belief.
But i sincerely don't despise anyone who doesnt as i think that this is a very personal issue, we don't judge ppl by that alright.
Hence, i truly hope that my near-future bf will understands that.
Hopefully he holds on to the same belief as i do which it'll be sooo sooo rare -___-'''
Therefore, guess i shall remain single for a very very long time or be a spinster or marry a old ah-pek when im alr an old ah-ma with no more sex drive -_-!
Told you this is a random post liao.